Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Hook up online?




To meet guys there are a few places in Hanoi (bars, park, etc) as i previously wrote. The other alternative is on the web.

I found one main website to hook up online: gaydar  though gay.com (i tried...not so many guys) or gayromeo (never tried) but also vietsingle. I'm quite surprised by the last one as it is a "local only" dating site and it's operated locally. 

In contrary to what i know from field (bar) there are some lesbians too! Although after a quick check there is none from Ha Noi and most of them are from Saigon... what a shame for Ha noi! :p

Anyway, this post is just a little introduction for another one coming much later... :p

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

If you go to the vietsingle site you will note that in Vietnam you have FOUR sexes:

Male
Female
Gay
Lesbian

That is interesting....wonder how bisexuals define their sex? All of the above?

Ido said...

Simple answer:
if you are bi you just look for both, you don't need to mention it. Especially, if you date someone of the opposite sex you don't want this person to know that at the beginning (or at all).

Other answer:
i'm already surprised that there is a Gay section and even (much) more that the lesbian section exists! I think people have no idea that bisexual persons exist. I would even think that bisexuals try to forget their homo attraction to live a normal life and get kids...

Nevertheless my common leitmotiv: i live in Hanoi which is more old fashioned than Saigon, Vietnam is changing very fast though mainly in the cities only as far as i know...

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the help in this question. I did not know it.